Society

She is tired of all the mental, physical and emotional abuse. Or maybe she is just tired of all your cheating and constantly lying to her. Tired of being told be her girlfriends that they saw her man out on a date with another woman.

Constantly being used as a kicking bag and being reminded to cover up the bruises, I mean the show must go on. How many times are you going to cover those bruises with color, how many times are you going to paint over them? See black woman one to many times we are taught to suffer in silence and that the type of love we want or need only exist on television. That in the real world our love requires us to suffer first.

Not only do you forgive him but you are supposed to hold on to him and guide him into a better man that will one day hopeful see your virtue. Funny how I am supposed to accept him back wholeheartedly and not ridicule him for stepping out on me. He laid down next to her and touched every inch of her, probably promised her the world right? Yet I should continue to love this man and hold on to him because for some reason unknowing to me I will never find a better lover than him. 

I mean its not like he doesn't come back home after he cheats. Now I am supposed to welcome him back home after a few hours of pleasure with her hmm we both can smell her perfume on him. Like should i tap him on the back and say good work?. Forgive me but this is not the 1920's or 30's where I am supposed to forgive him or society deems me as a lose woman

See every time a woman comes back home from a failed marriage she is a dirty secret not to be discussed in fact she is a shame to the family. I mean if you couldn't make your marriage work what makes you think you are good enough for anything. See society would rather have you come back in a gasket. Now see she will raise your daughters and tell them their worth only matters if they get married.

We all have aunts and cousins and sisters that are not married, they have managed to finish school and get a good paying job and drives a nice car and lives in a beautiful house, mind you that she can afford too. But does it even matter, no it doesn't because she lacks a man no wait a ring on her finger?

Unless you are married and have kids society doesn't really care for your opinion as a woman in fact that is why man constantly rape us and belittle us cause we don't matter. man old enough to be your father practically raised you now suddenly is interested in you because you have curves. 

Like I said society would rather have me come back home in a gasket than come home at all.

Wouldn't you rather I come home?